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Truths That Men Have About Women

As promised, like I mentioning in my earlier post on what truths women have about men, this post will be about the truths men have about women. Such as:

  1. I look at and am attracted to other women. Everyday.
  2. I will never tell you the full details of my past relationship.
  3. I sometimes enjoy hanging with my friends more than I do with you.
  4. I don’t really know if I’m happy in this relationship or not. So stop asking.
  5. I love sex. More than you will ever know.
  6. I care about how you look. More than you will ever know.
  7. I love it when you don’t hesitate to start the sex.
  8. We have an ego, no matter what we say. Be careful. Especially in bed.
  9. If we say we’ll call you after meeting and getting your number. We will.
  10. If we say we’ll call you after an awkward/crazy/weird/sad first date. We won’t.
  11. If we randomly say, without encouragement, that we like you. We really do.
  12. If we say that we like you, after you confessed your undying love for us. We really don’t.
  13. I still compare my ex-girlfriends to you. You mostly win.
  14. I watch porn. Like it’s new?
  15. I flirt with at least one other woman in my life.
  16. I want sex twice as much as I’m having it. Told you I liked sex.
  17. I’ve faked it sometimes. Less than you, but I have. You’ll never know.

The ‘men’ list is shorter than the ‘women’ one simply because men think about these things less than women (or maybe men have less to hide in a world where mainly women are pressured to be perfect). But see for yourself whether you disagree or agree with the list(s). Tell dancePROOF (me) why you do or don’t by leaving a quick comment.

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  1. George says:
    07.10.11 at 5:21 pm · Reply

    The list is shorter because men don’t have the “involvement” commitment at heart

  2. Georgiana Kale says:
    07.09.11 at 1:48 pm · Reply

    A lot of these apply to women too. Or at least, to me. 1,2,3 and 8 especially haha

  3. das30 says:
    07.07.11 at 12:53 pm · Reply

    I’m going to add one more which expands on #8:

    You can easily hurt my feelings… But I probably won’t admit it

  4. Sorrower1 says:
    06.07.11 at 8:05 pm · Reply

    Olivia, the meaning of the 15th truth is, that men flirt at least one time, with one woman, even if we spend the rest of our days together. 

    There’s not two “woman of our lives” we just flirt at least one time, with one other woman 🙂 

    • Anita says:
      07.12.11 at 12:16 pm · Reply

      Hey Sorrower, can u please be more spesific? I couldn’t make out your answer

      P.S.: Totally agree with Olivia 

  5. Olivia V. Mcnamara says:
    05.23.11 at 9:42 am · Reply

     so if it’s generally true and there’s not much you can do to change that, 2 questions : 1.) if you’re being offered twice as much sex than you’re having but don’t take it, is it because the woman isn’t attractive ? ? 2.) should women feel threatened by the other woman in your life you  flirt with on a daily basis (i.e work, school, teams, mutual friends) and why not leave the one you’re with and pursue that one ? ? 

    • Micah Ascends says:
      07.10.11 at 1:52 am · Reply

      If I were to be offered twice as much sex but not take it, the answer would definitely vary. In my case if I didn’t turn it down, I would think of myself as being desperate, especially if I weren’t attracted to her. When it comes to flirting on a daily basis, it would depend on if it’s harmless or not in my opinion. By the way, can anyone explain to me how a woman tells you she loves you for three weeks, then the first day you see her, you kiss her and she shows no sign of disapproval, then later that night tells you she wants to be friends but at the same time sniffs your jacket you accidentally left, but then four days later, gets in a relationship and tells you to piss off because she’s had enough of you bringing up the subject even though all you wanted was to figure out what the hell happened? (Mind you this was a long distance thing)

      • Pinkants says:
        07.11.11 at 9:47 am · Reply

        I’ll explain it. People want what they can’t have (you say it was long distance). When the thing they can’t have arrives, it never is as good as they thought it was.
        Four days later they find something else and the old thing gets in the way.
        Two questions:
        1) She sniffed your jacket? Why is this in the story? It just sounds like a “You did (A) therefore you must love me!” let it go.
        2) I’m hoping there some lead up to these three weeks of “love”? Don’t get so riled up about this, because this situation that lasted 3 weeks and 4 days seems to me to have nothing to do with “love”.

        • Micah Ascends says:
          07.12.11 at 12:21 am · Reply

          Well I forgot to mention that we’ve known each other for a couple years online, but we’ve never really got serious till those past three weeks because I told her I was coming to see her. I mentioned she sniffed my jacket while telling me she “just wanted to be friends” because it confused the hell out of me, making me think “Are you telling me the whole truth?” I didn’t know what to believe. I still don’t somewhat. It also made me think “Do you love me or not?”

          • Micah Ascends says:
            07.12.11 at 12:25 am ·

            The people want what they can’t have makes sense though

  6. justme says:
    04.05.11 at 1:18 am · Reply

    Well, there’s some truth to the lists..but it all depends on a man’s honesty, integrity, pride and faithfulness..individuality and character shapes a man…

    • Swak24 says:
      08.07.11 at 12:52 am · Reply

      Thank you for this comment… idk why everyone (above comments) are getting so flustered about this list. Its not like this is a “set in stone” list and read it as you will and agree or disagree as you will, but there is nooo reason to be getting all hot and heavy because #15 states
      “I flirt with at least one other woman in my life.”

  7. c.j. says:
    03.14.10 at 5:48 pm · Reply

    more matter-of-fact ideas. though i’m not sure i totally agree, i do like the tag:

    “The ‘men’ list is shorter than the ‘women’ one simply because men think about these things less than women (or maybe men have less to hide in a world where mainly women are pressured to be perfect).”

    i’m not sure the title of either of these posts was really appropriate (perhaps if sarcastic only… yes?). either way, i’d love to see a list of so-called “secrets” people (not men, not women) have from their partners/friends. hard for them to be “truths” when they’ll never apply to even nearly most, but… you get the idea*. (i realize that i might have to write it, if we’re talking in gender-neutral terms… heh.)

    *at least: i hope so.

  8. c.j. says:
    03.14.10 at 9:48 pm · Reply

    more matter-of-fact ideas. though i’m not sure i totally agree, i do like the tag:

    “The ‘men’ list is shorter than the ‘women’ one simply because men think about these things less than women (or maybe men have less to hide in a world where mainly women are pressured to be perfect).”

    i’m not sure the title of either of these posts was really appropriate (perhaps if sarcastic only… yes?). either way, i’d love to see a list of so-called “secrets” people (not men, not women) have from their partners/friends. hard for them to be “truths” when they’ll never apply to even nearly most, but… you get the idea*. (i realize that i might have to write it, if we’re talking in gender-neutral terms… heh.)

    *at least: i hope so.

  9. Jayed says:
    03.02.10 at 9:52 pm · Reply

    Masturbation = for the win 😀 = stress reliever and “pressure” reliever. at-least that’s what I use it for

  10. Jayed says:
    03.03.10 at 2:52 am · Reply

    Masturbation = for the win 😀 = stress reliever and “pressure” reliever. at-least that’s what I use it for

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